Community Magazine July 2016

–Rabbi Eliyahu Azatchi– A resident of Long Branch, NJ, Rabbi Eliyahu Azatchi enjoys his daily studies at the Sephardic Torah Center Kollel, as he has for more than thirty years. His routine came to an abrupt halt, though, when doctors discovered that his kidneys were functioning at about a 30% performance level. “The doctor warned me about the situation,” Rabbi Azatchi says, “but he gave the impression that it was treatable with medication and changes in my lifestyle. I was concerned… but not so worried.” For three years, Rabbi Azatchi took his prescribed medications, and carefully watched his diet and blood pressure. Unfortunately, however, there came a point when he could no longer ignore his fatigue and the lack of clarity in his thinking. “I gained 20 pounds in one year due to water retention, the Rabbi says. “I was told that I needed a kidney transplant,” The Rabbi knew about Renewal, and sought advice about donors. Both family members and others volunteered. After evaluation, one of his family members was indeed found to be a match but did not meet Renewal’s strict medical guidelines. In the same breath though, the representative reassured the family: “Don’t worry; we have another donor for you.” Eight months after applying to Renewal, Rabbi Azatchi had the transplant surgery and met his donor.. “A true sadeket ,” he says about her, “She made me feel like I was doing her a favor by giving her the zechut to do a mitzvah. There is no way to thank her.” Throughout his emotional journey, Rabbi Azatchi’s main concern was his children, most particularly his son’s upcoming Bar Mitzvah. “Am I going to make it?” he wondered. Thanks to the tireless efforts of Renewal, the Rabbi indeed made it to that Bar Mitzvah without ever going to dialysis. “I am no longer fatigued or unfocussed,” he says. “I feel Hashem gave me a second chance because of my wife and children.” He gently added, “Make your time count, and appreciate your family.” –Yaniv Nagar– It was roughly thirteen years ago that Yaniv, a New Jersey local, was informed he had Polycystic kidney disease; a disease in which the kidneys contain noncancerous sacs containing water-like fluid, which can often grow very large. Upon discovering his patient’s condition, Yaniv’s doctor delivered the terrifying verdict: “You have ten years to live.” To Yaniv, the news seemed surreal, and for three days, he simply could not digest the statement. After he finally ‘came to’, Yaniv found himself in an emotional frenzy. He sought the support and guidance of Rabbi Shmuel Choueka of Congregation Ohel Simha (Park Avenue Shul), who directed him to Dr. Albert Matalon of NYU Medical Center. Until today, Yaniv remains under Dr. Matalon’s care. As time progressed, and with his new doctor’s help, Yaniv learned to cope with his condition. He remained sound for the years that followed, and went about life rather optimistically, though never forgetting the decree of his previous doctor. After seeing irregularities in his patient’s creatinine level, Dr. Matalon referred Yaniv to Renewal. He needed a new kidney. From there, Yaniv met Renewal Community Advocate, A.J. Gindi, who immediately took Yaniv under his personal care. He was soon registered with Columbia Presbyterian Hospital, and put on the registry for a new kidney. Just months later, Yaniv ran in to A.J. on Purim Day and was assured that things were in development. Although the news was encouraging, days can feel like centuries while a person with failing kidneys lies in wait. Finally, Yaniv received a call from Columbia Presbyterian Hospital. He was told to come in and meet the chief of surgery; he was scheduled for an operation on the 24 th of May. At long last, things were looking up. After meeting with the surgeon and undergoing the required bloodwork and necessary procedures, Yaniv readied himself for surgery. While donning his surgical gown, he was paid a visit by some of the men who had made it all possible. A.J. Gindi, Menachem Friedman, and David Schischa of Renewal graced his hospital room with warm wishes and blessings of success. It was only minutes before the procedure was set to take place, and Yaniv was feeling good, except for one thing that gnawed at his heart. Up until this point, he’d remained in the dark as to who his mystery donor was. He was told the donor preferred to remain anonymous. That was, however, until everyone had left the room, and Yaniv was left alone awaiting transport. With just five minutes to go, in walked the donor. Yaniv was overtaken by emotion as he gazed at the stranger who would be saving his life. “I want to give you my kidney,” the donor began “You’re going to be healthy again, and I don’t want you to worry about anything.” In a show of tears, the two embraced. Yaniv expressed his concern for his new hero, but the donor was adamant: “Don’t worry about me,” he said. “I just want you to be healthy”. Weeks later, Yaniv is home recovering from the procedure. He tells us he’s feeling better and stronger every day. Now, Yaniv looks towards the future and hopes to find the right girl and get married. He vows to never forget what Renewal has done for him. –Jack Shemueli– Jack Shemueli is the owner of Sara’s Tent, and a father of four from Deal, NJ. Just two years ago, Jack was given the frightening news: After years of closely managing his diabetes, he was unfortunately in need of a new kidney. Initially, Jack was adamant about not having his children evaluated for donation, but after substantial pressure from his children, and friend A.J. Gindi, he relented. His son, Avi was found to be a perfect match. After undergoing the required testing and bloodwork, father and son were given a scheduled date for the operation – but it would soon be canceled. Much to the family’s surprise, a final X-ray revealed a less-than-perfect photograph of Avi’s kidneys; an additional three months of testing was required to rule out any concern. This meant Jack would have to begin dialysis in the interim. Ultimately doctors concluded that although Avi was healthy, and a perfect genetic match, a few nonmalignant spots on his kidneys were enough to disqualify him as his father’s donor. It was back to square one for Jack. Jack Shmueli (recipient) Renewal Community Advocate A.J. Gindi with recipient Rabbi Eliyahu Azatchi. 34 COMMUNITY MAGAZINE