Community Magazine February 2014

Community Chest 86 COMMUNITY MAGAZINE 2014 Grand Science Fair held at Bet Yaakov of the Jersey Shore “Mah rabu maasecha Hashem – How great are Your wonders, Hashem!” The girls at Bet Yaakov of the Jersey Shore just completed their annual science fair, seizing a precious opportunity to delve into the many wonders of the natural world. Each class was divided into groups, and each group was assigned a topic to explore and study in depth. The students then either conducted an experiment using the scientific method, or constructed an accurate model relevant to their topic. They invested countless hours of research and hard work, gradually transforming their abstract ideas into masterpieces, while utilizing the same methodology that is used by scientists. Their finished products displayed their extensive research as well as their outstanding writing and presentation skills which they developed as part of their science curriculum. All this was showcased at the grand science fair. Prior to the parents’ arrival, the students were judged on their knowledge of their topic, adherence to guidelines, and presentation of material, and winners of each class were selected and awarded with certificates and prizes. Dr. Judith Shoner, BYJS General Studies Dean, had the highest praise for her students’ accomplishments. “On this journey, our students become our teachers, and we all become students.” Dalia Abott Teaches Students the Real Meaning of Beautiful If the success of a school program can be judged by the amount of students jumping out of their seats, hands up, eager to participate, and still talking about what they’ve learned weeks afterward, The SAFE Foundation’s Healthy Body Image Presentation by Dalia Abott LMSW, RD, was a resounding success. Dalia presented to three assemblies of middle division and high school girls in Magen David Yeshivah on December 24th, and the students said the program was life-changing. One of the things Dalia emphasized was that there is a way to speak nicely to oneself. She said that often when we get a compliment, we refuse to accept the good words. Sometimes we express our negative responses aloud, and other times, we speak them quietly to ourselves. She said that if we find that we are using the word “BUT” after receiving a compliment, we should know that we are going to a bad place and should back up. Dalia used a loud, “Stop it!” shout to silence negative voices telling us we are anything less than wonderful. She said that those voices are not our friends, and that we do have the choice of how we want to speak to ourselves. She asked, “Has anyone here ever not gone somewhere because of how they looked? Has anyone here ever compared themselves to someone else?” Most all did. At one point, Dalia split the room into two, charging one group to chant, “Perfect people aren’t real!” and the other to call out, “Real people aren’t perfect!” To drive this point home, Dalia showed a video of an image of a woman’s face being photoshopped to be “model” beautiful. Dalia emphasized, “Beauty is not a mold. Let your beauty shine from within.” A most fascinating portion of the program was when Dalia asked volunteers to read the names of body parts that were written on cards. Each girl was asked to think of different functions of that body part. This exercise highlighted that aside from the visual, there are many special aspects of the body. This took the concept of beauty to a whole new level. A few days later, students told SAFE teachers that the program introduced them to ideas that that will stay with them forever, adding that since then they have been practicing positive self-talk and accepting compliments graciously. They exclaimed, “And it feels good!” Written by The SAFE Foundation